Abin da ya gabata 6 Oktoba Marshall Rosenberg, mahaliccin Ubangiji Nonviolent sadarwa, yana da shekara tamanin kuma wadancan da suka dandana amfanin aikin sa muna bikin.

Marshall B. Rosenberg an haife shi 6 Oktoba 1934 a Canton, Ohio (Kasar Amurka), dangi ya koma ciki 1943 Detroit, Michigan, jim kadan kafin a fara wannan tarzoma a wannan shekarar. Marshall ya faɗi yadda ƙwarewar tashin hankali ya ba shi alama. Ya kuma samu tashin hankali a makaranta, ta hanyar gano shi a matsayin Bayahude da sunansa na ƙarshe. Kamar yadda shi da kansa ya fada, gano cewa akwai mutanen da zasu iya jin daɗin yin lahani. Kuma a lokaci guda, zai iya ganin yadda sauran mutane suka sami damar motsawa tare da tausayi a cikin mawuyacin yanayi (kakarsa, cewa a lokacin rikicin ya sami damar ciyar da mutane akan titi; ko kawun ka, wanda ya sami damar ciyar da warkar da tsohuwa).

Daga baya ya karanci ilimin halin dan Adam ya samu digirin digirgir tare da Carl Rogers a ciki 1961, tabbatacce cancanta a matsayin mai ilimin halin kwantar da hankali a ciki 1966. duk da haka, hanyar ilimin halin dan Adam bai gamsar dashi ba, tare da wannan fifikon kwaskwarimar alamomin da bincike. Ya ci gaba da bincike da horo (ya kuma horar da Mayar da hankali, kuma a zahiri ya bada shawarar shi a cikin horarwar sa), kuma a karshen halitta aiwatar da Nonviolent sadarwa kamar yadda muke saninsa a halin yanzu.

Tun daga 1980s ya yi aiki a ƙasashen waje biyu don sasanta rikice-rikicen rikici da haɓaka ƙananan ƙwarewar warware rikici a rayuwarmu ta yau da kullun., rikice-rikice tare da wasu mutane da rikice-rikice na ciki. 'Yan shekarun da suka gabata ya yi ritaya, bayan aikata ɗaruruwan ɗabi'a a duniya kuma bayan sun kafa Cibiyar Sadarwar Kasa da Kasa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa) don yada wannan hanyar canzawa. Kuna iya karanta ƙarin game da rayuwarsa da kuma inda ya yi aiki a gidan yanar gizo na Cibiyar Kula da Rikici ta Kasa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa).

Na sami jin daɗin horo tare da shi, tare da matarsa ​​Valentina tare da wasu masu horarwa a cikin horo na kasa da kasa (International m Training) kwanaki tara a Switzerland a watan Agusta 2008, kuma na sami damar nuna farincikinsu da yadda suka ƙarfafa ni don in gwada watsa fahimtata na Sadarwar vioaukata ga yara da kuma mutanen da ke hulɗa da su.. Yawancin ayyuka na tun daga wancan lokacin ne abin da na koya daga gare shi., sosai don ƙirƙirar a Gaskiya Connection More a cikin rayuwar dukkan mutane (gami da nawa), kamar yadda a rayuwar yara, 'yan mata da matasa waɗanda ni ma na zo tare da su, da mutanen da ke kewaye da shi (musamman ta hanyar Yara karkace Consulting, tsakanin layin Sadarwar Bahaushe). A wannan horon da muke magana game da Takaddun shaida ne, kuma duk da cewa a ƙarshe hanya ce da ban bi ta ba, Ina jin wani ɓangare na vioungiyar Sadarwar Sadarwa na ci gaba kuma na ci gaba da yin aiki tare da Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa nan a Spain da kuma sauran aikatawa da kuma rukuni na ilmantarwa.

A wannan bikin mun dauki wannan hoton cewa, haduwa da rabo, ya nuna mana Marshall, Ni da Valentina tare da yara maza biyu waɗanda ba a san mu ba, kamar yadda yake nuna alama ta hanya ta musamman aikin da yara nake gudanarwa tare da zugawar Marshall da Sadarwar Rashin Gaggawa.

Daga nan zan aiko da godiya da jinjina. Na gode, Marshall!

Tare da yin godiya mai zurfi na aika da sahihiyar murnar. na gode, Marshall!

Javier