Suna zama sosai poignant rana tsakanin wadanda suka san da kuma yi Nonviolent sadarwa. Marshall B. Rosenberg, mahaliccin Nonviolent Sadarwa, Ya ya mutu karshe 7 Fabrairu 2015 yana da shekaru 80 shekara (Mun yi bikin ranar haihuwar 'yan watanni da suka wuce a cikin wannan post), da kuma wadanda suka san shi da kyau a general suka koya su model suna yin wani abu da sanar da mu: tasbĩhi game da abubuwan da suka rufe muke bukata da kuma yarda mu wuce duel na events cewa sun bar mu unmet bukatun.

Na yi yardar formarme tare da shi a lokacin da kwanaki tara na kasa da kasa m Training (International m Training, IIT) Switzerland a watan Yuli da Agusta 2008. Na cewa horo ne hoto na tare da Marshall da matarsa ​​Valentina, tare da kara symbolism na gaban wasu yara biyu da kuma wata yarinya ba recognizable a bango, wanda aka nasaba da Marshall na ba ni ƙarfafawa a cikin aikin da yara, da kuma matasa (karanta ƙarin bayanai a cikin na asali shigarwa).

A lokacin wadannan kwanaki, a abin da na karanta daban-daban saƙonni da kuma commemorations cewa sun faru a cikin al'umma na Nonviolent Sadarwa, Na kuma dauki damar sake karanta bayanin kula daga abin da na rayu waɗannan kwanaki da shi (da kuma sauran horo kamfanin da kuma sauran mahalarta). Kuma daga baya da shi zã ta shãfe rereading dukan ayyukan da, a matsayin wata hanya refresh da kuma girmama su aiki.

Marshall Rosenberg yi aiki don ƙirƙirar wani more m duniya, ganowa al'amurran rayuwa, da kuma ci gaban ko da a cikin mafi m ayyukan. Its asali jumla ne “Rikici ne mai ban tausayi magana na unmet bukatun”, da kuma hanya, Nonviolent sadarwa, hanya domin saurare da kuma reformulate maganganu a sami mafita inda dukkan jam'iyyun lashe-lashe.

Domin ni shi ne musamman da lada Marshall ta girmamawa a kan canji, ya ba ya so ya bauta wa Nonviolent Sadarwa ga mutane su kwantar da hankalinsu tare da ransa. The aiki fara ciki kowane mutum, amma ba za ka iya zama a can, shi dole isa daban-daban Tsarin (tattalin arziki, zaman jama'a, manufofin, ilimi…) da kuma cewa fasalin humanizándolas. Kamar yadda ya gaya mana a Switzerland: “Our mataki kama da wani wanda ya ga wani jariri fadowa saukar da wani waterfall da kuma kubutar da, da kuma ganin wani da kuma kubutar da, da kuma ganin wani da kuma kubutar da… A wasu lokaci za ka so wannan mutumin ya taso wanda aka amai jariran da kuma hawa da waterfall don kauce wa”.

Baya daga rubuce aiki (fiye da dozin littattafai, tsakãninsu Nonviolent sadarwa. Harshe na rayuwa) da bidiyo da kuma rikodin na nazarinsa, kuma su songs, Marshall ganye zarcewa da Cibiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa), tare da wani tarihi na shekarun da suka gabata na aikin, kuma an gudanar da ayyuka ba tare da shi a tsawon shekaru. Yana kuma bar daruruwan bokan masu horon da cewa su model ne har yanzu daukar kwayar cutar da aminci da kuma dubban likitoci suka yi kokarin sa wasu haske a cikin mu kullum rikice-rikice. Yana da wani abu don bikin.

A lokaci guda, mutuwarsa bar wani wõfintattu. Sanin cewa ya ya mutu a gidansa tare da matarsa ​​Valentina da 'ya'yansu ne da qananan consolation. Mun san cewa da za mu gani ba wakiltar sabon rikici yanayi, ba ji wani sabon songs, ba a rubuta sabon littattafai. Kuma kafin cewa akwai kawai rungumi tare da tausayi da jin zafi da kuma bakin ciki da ya bayyana.

Kawai ta hadawa da cikakken kwarewa mu iya matsar da cikakken, hadawa da shi samu daga Marshall da kuma neman, lokacin da lokacin, yadda za a sabunta wani enriching hanya ga kowa da kowa.

A bikin da makoki,

Javier