Yofatsa Kulankhulana
Kodi lingaliro ili la More Authentic Connection lili ndi chiyani??
Mikangano, zimamveka ngati mikhalidwe yomwe pali zotheka zosiyanasiyana, ndi gawo la moyo.
Pulogalamu ya dokotala Marshall B. Rosenberg adapanga njira ya Nonviolent Communication ngati njira yothetsera mikangano yomwe ili gawo la moyo kuti kulumikizana kupangidwe., kukumana, ndi kuti maphwando onse amapambana.
Kulankhulana Mopanda chiwawa kumatithandiza kufotokoza zomwe zili zofunika kwa ife momveka bwino, mphamvu ndi ulemu. Kumvetsera mozama komanso moona mtima, popanda kutiweruza, tikhoza kudziwa zomwe tikumva. Pozindikira momwe tikumvera titha kufikiranso mfundo/zosowa/zikhalidwe zathu, padziko lonse kwa anthu onse. Kenako titha kupanga njira zowakhutitsira powapempha ndi kuchitapo kanthu.. Ndipo poika zonsezi m’mawu timadziwonetsera tokha m’njira yoti amene ali patsogolo pathu atimve..
Nthawi yomweyo, Kulankhulana Kopanda Chiwawa kumatiphunzitsa kumvetsera ndi kulandira mphamvu zomwe zili pansi pa mawu osasangalatsa kwa ife., ngakhale zachiwawa, pamene tikuteteza makhalidwe athu. Mwanjira imeneyi, timakulitsa luso lomvetsetsa anthu ena pozindikira masomphenya awo enieni., kumverera, zosowa/makhalidwe omwe amawasuntha, ndipo titha kupeza njira zokambitsirana zomwe zimakwaniritsa maphwando onse nthawi imodzi.
Ndi Kulankhulana Kopanda Chiwawa titha kupanga Kulumikizana Kowona Kwambiri muubwenzi wathu, ndi mayankho omwe amathandiza mbali zonse, motero kulenga dziko lamtendere.
Pulogalamu ya Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC), inakhazikitsidwa ndi Marshall Rosenberg, kuthandizira kufalitsa Kulankhulana Kwankhanza padziko lonse lapansi kuti athetse mikangano yamunthu, awiri, achibale, m’sukulu, m'mabungwe komanso pazandale ndi zachikhalidwe.
Ntchito zolumikizirana zomwe ndimapereka
- Maphunziro a kulankhulana pakati pa anthu potengera kulankhulana kopanda chiwawa, m'magulu akukula munthu kapena magulu a chitukuko cha akatswiri.
- Kutsata njira ndi Nonviolent Communication, kuti apeze mayankho omwe amathandiza mbali zonse zokhudzidwa.
