Maphunziro mu Kulankhulana

Kodi tikufuna kuchita chiyani mumsonkhano?

Mu msonkhano uliwonse timapereka (ndi makulidwe osiyanasiyana malinga ndi nthawi yake) phunzirani zoyambira za Yofatsa Kulankhulana makamaka mwa kuchita mwachindunji.

Timayandikira ku zenizeni zathu poyeserera pazochitika zenizeni zomwe takumana nazo, kukulitsa kumvetsetsa kwathu, kufotokoza ndi kumvetsera.

Zachindunji, tikufuna:

• Yambani kupanga mawu enieni.
• Yambani kumvetsera mwachifundo.
• Phunzirani momwe mungamasulire njira yolumikiziranayi m'zilankhulo zatsiku ndi tsiku, zomwe zimalola kugwirizana ndi fluidity.
• Unikani ndikuwona mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito pagulu komanso m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, komanso poyimira pakati ndi chithandizo chamankhwala.

Malingaliro othandiza

Maphunzirowa ndi othandiza kwambiri: ku zokambirana ndi otsogolera (ndi mafotokopi ena othandizira) kutsatira zochita payekha, kuyesera ndi magulu a anthu awiri kapena atatu ndi kusanthula mozama milandu mu gulu lalikulu.

Malingana ndi mawonekedwe, akhoza kukhala:

• Msonkhano-msonkhano.
• msonkhano waukulu (sabata, mwachizolowezi, kapenanso zotheka mkati mwa sabata).
• Magulu ophunzitsira nthawi zonse (magawo a 2-3 maola mlungu uliwonse, masabata awiri aliwonse, pamwezi… ndi gulu lomwelo la anthu).

Kupititsa patsogolo kugwiritsa ntchito Nonviolent Communication

Pamene maziko oyambirira a ndondomekoyi akwaniritsidwa, ndizotheka kupitirizabe ndi ma monographs odziimira okha.:

• Monographs ndi mutu: mlandu, ku mkwiyo, mantha, kupanga zisankho…
• Monographs mwa interlocution (mtundu wa anthu omwe tikufuna kuti tikwaniritse kulumikizana kowona): mgwirizano ndi anthu ochokera ku mgwirizano wothandizira, ubale wa akatswiri, mgwirizano ndi mnzako, ubale ndi ana ndi achinyamata…
• Monographs ndi luso: mpando luso, malo ovina (amene ndinachita nawo ntchito yomasulira m’Chisipanishi), kukongola kwa zofunikira…